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  • Writer's pictureEboni D. Howell, LPC

Embracing the Journey: Honoring My Becoming

In the symphony of life, each of us is a unique melody, interlacing our own stories and experiences into the intricate design of our existence. As we navigate the twists and turns of life's journey, it becomes essential to pause and reflect on the profound process of becoming – the ongoing evolution of self. This blog post is a celebration of that journey, a tribute to the countless moments that shape us into the individuals we are meant to become.


As I reflect on my journey, I find myself drawn to the idea of “honoring my becoming”. I embrace the evolution of who I am and recognize the significance of every step taken, acknowledging the rest is still unwritten. I encountered the term on a social media post (I wish I could remember so I can give credit where credit is due). The phrase deeply resonated with me as the new year has begun.


The Symphony of Becoming:

Our lives are a continuous journey of growth, transformation, and self-discovery. Every experience, whether joyous or challenging, contributes to the masterpiece of our becoming. Like a skilled musician, we orchestrate the composition of our lives with the melodies of our choices, relationships, and personal triumphs.


Each phase of life adds a new layer to our symphony, reflecting the diversity of our emotions, the resilience of our spirit, and the wisdom gained through our encounters with the world. It's important to acknowledge that becoming is not a linear path but a dynamic, ever-unfolding narrative.


Honoring the Past:

To truly honor our becoming, we must pay homage to the chapters that came before – the lessons learned, the hardships endured, and the victories celebrated. Our past shapes our present, and we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves by acknowledging and embracing it.


Reflection on the past also allows us to recognize the growth that has occurred. Even the moments of struggle and adversity have played a crucial role in shaping our character and fortifying our resilience. It is through acknowledging and learning from these experiences that we pave the way for a more enlightened future.


Gratitude for the Present:

The present moment is a gift, a culmination of all that has come before. We can appreciate the richness of the now by being fully present in our lives. This involves acknowledging our strengths, embracing our vulnerabilities, and finding joy in the small, everyday moments.


Gratitude serves as a powerful tool in honoring our becoming. Expressing thanks for the people, opportunities, and experiences that have contributed to our growth cultivates a positive mindset and a sense of fulfillment. It also fosters a deeper connection to the present, allowing us to savor the beauty of the journey we are currently on.


Embracing the Future:

Just as the past and present shape our becoming, so too does the anticipation of the future. Honoring my becoming involves envisioning the person I aspire to be and setting intentions for the path ahead. Embracing the unknown with optimism and courage enables me to step into the next chapter of my life with authenticity, purpose, and resilience.


Our becoming is the melody that defines us. By honoring the journey, celebrating the milestones, and learning from the challenges, we embrace the beauty of our evolution. Each note in our melody contributes to the vibrant and intricate masterpiece that is our unique and ever-unfolding existence. Honoring this journey involves embracing the past, present, and future with curiosity, self-compassion, and self-love. So, let us cherish the process, honor our becoming, and revel in the awe-inspiring mosaic of life.

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